My Fierce and Fabulous Journey to the Crown
Miss Greater Dallas International
Thursday, June 7, 2012
Building Inner Beauty Pageant this Saturday!!
I can't believe that the Building Inner Beauty Pageant is this Saturday!! All of the ladies participating are fabulous, driven, and goal orientated. It is such an honor that I have been asked to be the Mistress of Ceremonies and a Pageant Coach to the girls. This has truly been a life changing experience. It has been fabulous working with every contestant and the BIB Dream Team leading up to the pageant. I know we are going to have a fabulous pageant day and I can't wait to see how each each contestant has grown from the Meet and Great to the after pageant party. Keep your eyes posted for pictures from the event and the new Building Inner Beauty Queens.
The pageant is free to the public so you are more then welcome to come and join in the excitement at the Plano Courtyard Theatre. The pageant starts at 6:30pm!
Rustie J
22nd Annual Komen Plano Race for the Cure on Saturday, June 9th
Make sure you come out and support breast cancer education and research on June 9th on The HP Campus on Legacy. Not only can you learn more about breast cancer warning signs and advancements in treatments but you can also get your cardio on (a key way to live a healthy lifestyle). Look for me and my fellow pageant sister with our crowns on walking for a great cause!
Do you know all of the warning signs for breast cancer? (Hint: it's not just about lumps!)
1. Lump in the breast or underarm
2. Swelling, warmth, redness or darkening of the breast
3. Change in size or shape of the breast
4. Dimpling or puckering of the skin
5. Itchy, scaly sore or rash on nipple
6. Pulling of your nipple or other parts of the breast
7. Nipple discharge that starts suddenly
8. New pain in one spot that does not go away
Now you know the warning signs and can do self detection at home. If you have any of these signs, please, don't hesitate go see your doctor right away. The earlier it's detected; the higher survivor rate! So check often.
Rustie J
Do you know all of the warning signs for breast cancer? (Hint: it's not just about lumps!)
1. Lump in the breast or underarm
2. Swelling, warmth, redness or darkening of the breast
3. Change in size or shape of the breast
4. Dimpling or puckering of the skin
5. Itchy, scaly sore or rash on nipple
6. Pulling of your nipple or other parts of the breast
7. Nipple discharge that starts suddenly
8. New pain in one spot that does not go away
Now you know the warning signs and can do self detection at home. If you have any of these signs, please, don't hesitate go see your doctor right away. The earlier it's detected; the higher survivor rate! So check often.
Rustie J
Sunday, June 3, 2012
Miss USA 2012
The Super Bowl of pageants!!!
The opening number were fabulous!! Five different groups with dresses that were to die for. But my favorite dress was Miss Texas (and it's not just because I'm from Texas :) ).
Miss USA Top 16...TN, AL, OH, MI, MD, NJ, TX (YES YES YES!!!!), CO, OK (YES!), LA, ME, GA, SC, RI, NV, and AR...congrats girls!!!
Swimsuit time...all of these ladies look great and are working in on stage!!
Miss USA Top 10...AL, OK (YES!), OH, GA, TX (YES YES YES!!!!), CO, NJ, MD, RI, and NV...congrats...on to evening gown!!
Evening gown...my favorite part... below are my favorite gowns.
The opening number were fabulous!! Five different groups with dresses that were to die for. But my favorite dress was Miss Texas (and it's not just because I'm from Texas :) ).
Miss USA Top 16...TN, AL, OH, MI, MD, NJ, TX (YES YES YES!!!!), CO, OK (YES!), LA, ME, GA, SC, RI, NV, and AR...congrats girls!!!
Swimsuit time...all of these ladies look great and are working in on stage!!
Miss USA Top 10...AL, OK (YES!), OH, GA, TX (YES YES YES!!!!), CO, NJ, MD, RI, and NV...congrats...on to evening gown!!
Evening gown...my favorite part... below are my favorite gowns.
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Miss USA Top 5...GA, NV, RI, MD, and OH...congrats!! Congrats to Brittany Booker Miss Texas USA...you made your state proud!!!
Who will be the next Miss USA?? Time for on-stage interview...they question is are they beautiful and smart...we are about to find out.
GA...spoke well but the answer was not sound
NV...spoke well but the answer was not sound
RI...I think she spoke and answered it very well...nailed it!
MD...spoke well but I don't think she wishy.washy on her answer
OH...spoke well but the answer was not sound
I think RI has it and so does everyone on Facebook. We shall find out very soon...
I LOVE Alyssa Campanella's farewell dress!!!
And the next Miss USA is... 4th runner up is...GA; 3rd runner up is...NV; 2nd runner up is...OH; 1st runner up (and shall take the crown if the winner cannot) is...MD; MISS USA IS RI!!! She nailed the final question and her evening gown is fabulous!!!
Congrats to Rhode Island Miss Olivia Culpo!!! You will represent USA fabulously at Miss Universe!
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| The new Miss USA 2012!! |
Rustie J
Words of Wisdom from Ciji Dodds Miss International 2011
My Top 5 Pageant Tips and Tricks
You would think that by now I would be accustomed to people asking me for advice. I’m not, at all. I still feel weird giving it, but at the same time I realize that if someone is asking me it’s because they trust my opinion. As national’s nears my inbox is getting fuller and fuller. Some questions are recurring and I’ve decided to answer them below.
1. How do you manage appearances while preparing for Nationals?
Do not over exert yourself or else by the time you get to Chicago, you will be wiped out. Make sure your schedule is manageable and affords you plenty of time to do the necessary prep work and keep appearances. The month before Nationals I didn’t make any appearances after July 10, if I remember correctly. I did this to give me time to decompress and to take care of tasks such as alterations, cosmetic appointments, and shopping for last minute wardrobe items. Small tasks such as running to your seamstress takes time, my advice, take as many pieces as possible at one time. You will cut down on gas and headaches. Things can get crazy, but above all else make sure you get enough rest. If you don’t slow down, your body will do it for you, and you don’t want that.
2. What advice do you have regarding interview questions?
Answer the questions. I don’t know how else to say it.
3. I’m having trouble with wardrobe, any tips on how to manage it?
Wardrobe is the never-ending nightmare. My number 1 tip, wear what makes you feel BEAUTIFUL. Pack as few shoes as possible. I love shoes and when I was told to do this I thought I would pass out. However, shoes take up precious space and they make your luggage heavy. Find a couple versatile pairs and make it happen.
As far as organization, make a wardrobe chart, complete with everything from the type of event to accessories and undergarments. You will thank me when you are packing! Also, as a general rule I always pack a couple extra cocktail dresses and an extra evening gown just in case.
4. How do I work on stage presence?
Video tape yourself and have someone who is brutally honest critique you, whether it is your coach, director or friend. Watching yourself is eye opening. So many things can be fixed just by watching yourself on video.
5. I heard that contestants are really busy during Nationals, how do you stay on top of everything?
Organization, organization, organization. When I got to my hotel room, the first thing I did was unpack and hang all my items on a travel clothes bar in accordance with my wardrobe sheet. I steamed and ironed everything at one time. You won’t have the time or energy to steam and iron on a daily basis. If you take care of it first thing, you will save time and frustration. Being on time is extremely important, so it is imperative that you can make quick changes with little fuss. Also, after every event, I immediately prepped for the next one before I did anything else. It’s been my experience that preparation and organization calms the nerves.
Best,
Ciji Dodds
Miss International 2011
1. How do you manage appearances while preparing for Nationals?
Do not over exert yourself or else by the time you get to Chicago, you will be wiped out. Make sure your schedule is manageable and affords you plenty of time to do the necessary prep work and keep appearances. The month before Nationals I didn’t make any appearances after July 10, if I remember correctly. I did this to give me time to decompress and to take care of tasks such as alterations, cosmetic appointments, and shopping for last minute wardrobe items. Small tasks such as running to your seamstress takes time, my advice, take as many pieces as possible at one time. You will cut down on gas and headaches. Things can get crazy, but above all else make sure you get enough rest. If you don’t slow down, your body will do it for you, and you don’t want that.
2. What advice do you have regarding interview questions?
Answer the questions. I don’t know how else to say it.
3. I’m having trouble with wardrobe, any tips on how to manage it?
Wardrobe is the never-ending nightmare. My number 1 tip, wear what makes you feel BEAUTIFUL. Pack as few shoes as possible. I love shoes and when I was told to do this I thought I would pass out. However, shoes take up precious space and they make your luggage heavy. Find a couple versatile pairs and make it happen.
As far as organization, make a wardrobe chart, complete with everything from the type of event to accessories and undergarments. You will thank me when you are packing! Also, as a general rule I always pack a couple extra cocktail dresses and an extra evening gown just in case.
4. How do I work on stage presence?
Video tape yourself and have someone who is brutally honest critique you, whether it is your coach, director or friend. Watching yourself is eye opening. So many things can be fixed just by watching yourself on video.
5. I heard that contestants are really busy during Nationals, how do you stay on top of everything?
Organization, organization, organization. When I got to my hotel room, the first thing I did was unpack and hang all my items on a travel clothes bar in accordance with my wardrobe sheet. I steamed and ironed everything at one time. You won’t have the time or energy to steam and iron on a daily basis. If you take care of it first thing, you will save time and frustration. Being on time is extremely important, so it is imperative that you can make quick changes with little fuss. Also, after every event, I immediately prepped for the next one before I did anything else. It’s been my experience that preparation and organization calms the nerves.
Best,
Ciji Dodds
Miss International 2011
Words of Wisdom from Ciji Dodds Miss International 2011
Appearances Matter
Ok. So the title of my blog is purposefully deceptive. When I use the word “Appearance,” I am talking about titleholder appearances and not the way you look on the outside. Everyone loves a working queen, however, appearances can be exhausting and consuming. At this very moment, my car is filled with my crown, sash, a sack of 30 to 40 books, bookmarks, pens, pencils, autograph cards, 4 pairs of shoes, back-up make-up, a garment bag with 2 just in case I’m a klutz dresses, and a pageant pack of tide pens, safety pins and baby wipes. And yes, I am tired and there have been times when I have wondered whether I was actually making a difference. The short answer is yes, appearances do matter.
Appearances are not only a way to promote your platform. They are a way to connect with people not only in your community but throughout the world. The beauty of appearances is that you never know who you will meet and what your meeting will lead to. I can’t count the number of times that I’ve met someone at an appearance, that resulted in another appearance or even a business opportunity. But most importantly, at each appearance, I usually make a meaningful connection with at least one person, which may not seem like a lot, but over time I like to think it makes a difference. Whether it is in a girl’s perception of her beauty or whether I have encouraged a child to pursue their education, appearances are the heartbeat of your year as a titleholder. So when you’re tired, just remember, Appearances do matter.
Best,
Ciji Dodds
Miss International 2011
Appearances are not only a way to promote your platform. They are a way to connect with people not only in your community but throughout the world. The beauty of appearances is that you never know who you will meet and what your meeting will lead to. I can’t count the number of times that I’ve met someone at an appearance, that resulted in another appearance or even a business opportunity. But most importantly, at each appearance, I usually make a meaningful connection with at least one person, which may not seem like a lot, but over time I like to think it makes a difference. Whether it is in a girl’s perception of her beauty or whether I have encouraged a child to pursue their education, appearances are the heartbeat of your year as a titleholder. So when you’re tired, just remember, Appearances do matter.
Best,
Ciji Dodds
Miss International 2011
Saturday, June 2, 2012
Boxer Mayweather Enters Jail for Domestic Violence Term
This is crap...why did Mayweather get to post-pone this jail time for his domestic violence sentence...because he had a fight. I don't care who or what you have going on. If you abused someone you should have to start your sentence right away. All this tells people is if your rich and/or famous you might be able to get out of abuse charges or serve your time when it's convenitent for them.
June 01, 2012
LAS VEGAS (Reuters) - Boxing champion Floyd Mayweather Jr. was booked into a Las Vegas jail on Friday to serve a 90-day sentence for domestic violence against an ex-girlfriend, a term that was previously postponed so the welterweight fighter could compete in a bout.
Mayweather, a flamboyant athlete regarded as the best defensive boxer of his generation, was issued standard dark blue prison garb and slippers and will be kept apart from the jail's general population of more than 3,000 other inmates, Las Vegas police said.
The unbeaten Mayweather had the start of his jail term delayed in January so he could fight in a May 5 super welterweight bout at the MGM Grand Garden Arena, where he came through 12 bruising rounds to prevail over Puerto Rican boxer Miguel Cotto.
After that contest, improving his professional record to 43-0, Mayweather discussed a possible fight with Manny Pacquiao of the Philippines, his rival for the mythical title of the world's best pound-for-pound fighter.
Fans have been clamoring for a Mayweather-Pacquiao matchup despite such stumbling blocks as Mayweather's insistence that Pacquiao agree to blood testing and disagreement over how the revenue from the fight should be divided.
Mayweather's jail sentence stems from a guilty plea in December to a charge of felony battery and pleas of no contest to two counts of harassment linked to a 2010 attack on his ex-girlfriend, Josie Harris, and verbal threats against two of his children with her.
The decision to delay his serving of the sentence, which was opposed by prosecutors, had been expected to benefit hotels and other businesses in Las Vegas. A major prize fight can generate $10 million to $15 million in non-gambling revenue.
During his time in the Clark County Detention Center, Mayweather will be confined to a cell consisting of a bed, toilet, sink and small desk, with a window to allow direct sunlight into the room, police said in a statement.
He will be allowed two books or magazines in his cell, and up to five religious books, and will be fed three meals a day, starting with breakfast at 4 a.m.
As a protective custody inmate, Mayweather will be kept in his cell while other inmates are on free-time, and will come out for free time for an hour a day while other inmates are on lockdown. During that time, he will have access to a recreation room, police said.
http://articles.chicagotribune.com/2012-06-01/sports/sns-rt-us-usa-mayweather-jailbre851021-20120601_1_mayweather-pacquiao-boxer-mayweather-josie-harris
June 01, 2012
LAS VEGAS (Reuters) - Boxing champion Floyd Mayweather Jr. was booked into a Las Vegas jail on Friday to serve a 90-day sentence for domestic violence against an ex-girlfriend, a term that was previously postponed so the welterweight fighter could compete in a bout.
Mayweather, a flamboyant athlete regarded as the best defensive boxer of his generation, was issued standard dark blue prison garb and slippers and will be kept apart from the jail's general population of more than 3,000 other inmates, Las Vegas police said.
The unbeaten Mayweather had the start of his jail term delayed in January so he could fight in a May 5 super welterweight bout at the MGM Grand Garden Arena, where he came through 12 bruising rounds to prevail over Puerto Rican boxer Miguel Cotto.
After that contest, improving his professional record to 43-0, Mayweather discussed a possible fight with Manny Pacquiao of the Philippines, his rival for the mythical title of the world's best pound-for-pound fighter.
Fans have been clamoring for a Mayweather-Pacquiao matchup despite such stumbling blocks as Mayweather's insistence that Pacquiao agree to blood testing and disagreement over how the revenue from the fight should be divided.
Mayweather's jail sentence stems from a guilty plea in December to a charge of felony battery and pleas of no contest to two counts of harassment linked to a 2010 attack on his ex-girlfriend, Josie Harris, and verbal threats against two of his children with her.
The decision to delay his serving of the sentence, which was opposed by prosecutors, had been expected to benefit hotels and other businesses in Las Vegas. A major prize fight can generate $10 million to $15 million in non-gambling revenue.
During his time in the Clark County Detention Center, Mayweather will be confined to a cell consisting of a bed, toilet, sink and small desk, with a window to allow direct sunlight into the room, police said in a statement.
He will be allowed two books or magazines in his cell, and up to five religious books, and will be fed three meals a day, starting with breakfast at 4 a.m.
As a protective custody inmate, Mayweather will be kept in his cell while other inmates are on free-time, and will come out for free time for an hour a day while other inmates are on lockdown. During that time, he will have access to a recreation room, police said.
http://articles.chicagotribune.com/2012-06-01/sports/sns-rt-us-usa-mayweather-jailbre851021-20120601_1_mayweather-pacquiao-boxer-mayweather-josie-harris
New Washington County Program Aids Domestic Abuse Victims
June 2, 2012
It seems simple, really, but saves lives.
Immediately asking 11 standard questions of domestic abuse victims -- generally women slammed around by men who profess to love them -- has changed Washington County's handling of such cases to the point that Sen. Amy Klobuchar, D-Minn., came to hear about it.
"It's one of the greatest things we've seen in domestic abuse in a long time," County Attorney Pete Orput said of the Lethality Assessment Protocol (LAP), that list of questions police ask of victims in intimate relationships that could head off more beatings -- or even homicides.
Prosecutors, police chiefs, the county sheriff, district judges, probation officers and victim advocates convened at the Washington County Government Center in Stillwater on Thursday to review the novel LAP program that now involves all 10 of the county's law enforcement agencies. The consensus: 300 assessments were accomplished in the first quarter of this year.
"I think we can see a real benefit to asking these questions on the streets," said Sandy Hahn, Washington County's deputy community corrections director who introduced LAP locally in 2010. Her department oversees people on probation for various crimes -- and many of them in trouble for abusing their intimate partners.
The top three questions that police officers ask concentrate on the likelihood that dangerous offenders will escalate violence. Was a weapon used or threatened? Do you think he might kill you? Has he made threats against you or your children?
Klobuchar, a former chief prosecutor in Hennepin County, said domestic disturbances are "fraught with emotion" and the LAP program helps bring a clear-sighted approach to defusing further violence. Victims who score high on the questions -- meaning they're at high risk -- could be taken to a shelter for immediate protection. Various criminal justice agencies, including courts, share the findings.
Police Chief Bill Sullivan of Oakdale told Klobuchar that of 51 LAP assessments made in his city, only one required further police intervention. In most domestic disturbances when nobody is arrested, he said, the situation settles down after police intervene.
"I think we have a far greater concern when there is demonstrable violence that has occurred and an arrest is made," he said in an interview Friday. "The suspect will ultimately be released from jail at some point and we can never accurately predict the suspect's reaction to being arrested after they return home. ... Any tool that we can use to try and help assess potential future violence is very important."
Oakdale and the Washington County Sheriff's Office were the first agencies to start LAP.
Karin McCarthy, a Washington County assistant attorney, said prosecutors can use LAP findings to ask judges for higher bail for abusers, or to successfully argue for tougher release conditions. And victims who have been placed under protection of the domestic violence agency Tubman have shown more willingness to help prosecutors, he said.
In Ramsey County, law enforcement agencies now are being trained for a similar lethality assessment program, said County Attorney John Choi. Adapted from the program "Blueprint for Safety" that Choi started in his previous job as St. Paul's city attorney, the county initiative aims to ensure victim safety and offender accountability.
Quicker intervention in domestic abuse cases means a higher likelihood that defendants can be held accountable because victims are less inclined to become intimidated, Choi said. The program also means more urgency directed at the most dangerous cases, he said.
Washington County District Judge Elizabeth Martin said the LAP program can't save all victims in Washington County from further violence. But the quick sharing of information in dangerous cases, she said, guides judges in their responses to the most troubling offenders.
"One of the things we know about these folks is that they violate, frequently, the conditions of their probation," said Tom Adkins, who heads Washington County's community corrections department. "This is one way for us to say, 'This is one we really need to pay attention to.'"
http://www.startribune.com/local/east/156874195.html
It seems simple, really, but saves lives.
Immediately asking 11 standard questions of domestic abuse victims -- generally women slammed around by men who profess to love them -- has changed Washington County's handling of such cases to the point that Sen. Amy Klobuchar, D-Minn., came to hear about it.
"It's one of the greatest things we've seen in domestic abuse in a long time," County Attorney Pete Orput said of the Lethality Assessment Protocol (LAP), that list of questions police ask of victims in intimate relationships that could head off more beatings -- or even homicides.
Prosecutors, police chiefs, the county sheriff, district judges, probation officers and victim advocates convened at the Washington County Government Center in Stillwater on Thursday to review the novel LAP program that now involves all 10 of the county's law enforcement agencies. The consensus: 300 assessments were accomplished in the first quarter of this year.
"I think we can see a real benefit to asking these questions on the streets," said Sandy Hahn, Washington County's deputy community corrections director who introduced LAP locally in 2010. Her department oversees people on probation for various crimes -- and many of them in trouble for abusing their intimate partners.
The top three questions that police officers ask concentrate on the likelihood that dangerous offenders will escalate violence. Was a weapon used or threatened? Do you think he might kill you? Has he made threats against you or your children?
Klobuchar, a former chief prosecutor in Hennepin County, said domestic disturbances are "fraught with emotion" and the LAP program helps bring a clear-sighted approach to defusing further violence. Victims who score high on the questions -- meaning they're at high risk -- could be taken to a shelter for immediate protection. Various criminal justice agencies, including courts, share the findings.
Police Chief Bill Sullivan of Oakdale told Klobuchar that of 51 LAP assessments made in his city, only one required further police intervention. In most domestic disturbances when nobody is arrested, he said, the situation settles down after police intervene.
"I think we have a far greater concern when there is demonstrable violence that has occurred and an arrest is made," he said in an interview Friday. "The suspect will ultimately be released from jail at some point and we can never accurately predict the suspect's reaction to being arrested after they return home. ... Any tool that we can use to try and help assess potential future violence is very important."
Oakdale and the Washington County Sheriff's Office were the first agencies to start LAP.
Karin McCarthy, a Washington County assistant attorney, said prosecutors can use LAP findings to ask judges for higher bail for abusers, or to successfully argue for tougher release conditions. And victims who have been placed under protection of the domestic violence agency Tubman have shown more willingness to help prosecutors, he said.
In Ramsey County, law enforcement agencies now are being trained for a similar lethality assessment program, said County Attorney John Choi. Adapted from the program "Blueprint for Safety" that Choi started in his previous job as St. Paul's city attorney, the county initiative aims to ensure victim safety and offender accountability.
Quicker intervention in domestic abuse cases means a higher likelihood that defendants can be held accountable because victims are less inclined to become intimidated, Choi said. The program also means more urgency directed at the most dangerous cases, he said.
Washington County District Judge Elizabeth Martin said the LAP program can't save all victims in Washington County from further violence. But the quick sharing of information in dangerous cases, she said, guides judges in their responses to the most troubling offenders.
"One of the things we know about these folks is that they violate, frequently, the conditions of their probation," said Tom Adkins, who heads Washington County's community corrections department. "This is one way for us to say, 'This is one we really need to pay attention to.'"
http://www.startribune.com/local/east/156874195.html
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