Thursday, June 7, 2012
Building Inner Beauty Pageant this Saturday!!
I can't believe that the Building Inner Beauty Pageant is this Saturday!! All of the ladies participating are fabulous, driven, and goal orientated. It is such an honor that I have been asked to be the Mistress of Ceremonies and a Pageant Coach to the girls. This has truly been a life changing experience. It has been fabulous working with every contestant and the BIB Dream Team leading up to the pageant. I know we are going to have a fabulous pageant day and I can't wait to see how each each contestant has grown from the Meet and Great to the after pageant party. Keep your eyes posted for pictures from the event and the new Building Inner Beauty Queens.
The pageant is free to the public so you are more then welcome to come and join in the excitement at the Plano Courtyard Theatre. The pageant starts at 6:30pm!
Rustie J
22nd Annual Komen Plano Race for the Cure on Saturday, June 9th
Make sure you come out and support breast cancer education and research on June 9th on The HP Campus on Legacy. Not only can you learn more about breast cancer warning signs and advancements in treatments but you can also get your cardio on (a key way to live a healthy lifestyle). Look for me and my fellow pageant sister with our crowns on walking for a great cause!
Do you know all of the warning signs for breast cancer? (Hint: it's not just about lumps!)
1. Lump in the breast or underarm
2. Swelling, warmth, redness or darkening of the breast
3. Change in size or shape of the breast
4. Dimpling or puckering of the skin
5. Itchy, scaly sore or rash on nipple
6. Pulling of your nipple or other parts of the breast
7. Nipple discharge that starts suddenly
8. New pain in one spot that does not go away
Now you know the warning signs and can do self detection at home. If you have any of these signs, please, don't hesitate go see your doctor right away. The earlier it's detected; the higher survivor rate! So check often.
Rustie J
Do you know all of the warning signs for breast cancer? (Hint: it's not just about lumps!)
1. Lump in the breast or underarm
2. Swelling, warmth, redness or darkening of the breast
3. Change in size or shape of the breast
4. Dimpling or puckering of the skin
5. Itchy, scaly sore or rash on nipple
6. Pulling of your nipple or other parts of the breast
7. Nipple discharge that starts suddenly
8. New pain in one spot that does not go away
Now you know the warning signs and can do self detection at home. If you have any of these signs, please, don't hesitate go see your doctor right away. The earlier it's detected; the higher survivor rate! So check often.
Rustie J
Sunday, June 3, 2012
Miss USA 2012
The Super Bowl of pageants!!!
The opening number were fabulous!! Five different groups with dresses that were to die for. But my favorite dress was Miss Texas (and it's not just because I'm from Texas :) ).
Miss USA Top 16...TN, AL, OH, MI, MD, NJ, TX (YES YES YES!!!!), CO, OK (YES!), LA, ME, GA, SC, RI, NV, and AR...congrats girls!!!
Swimsuit time...all of these ladies look great and are working in on stage!!
Miss USA Top 10...AL, OK (YES!), OH, GA, TX (YES YES YES!!!!), CO, NJ, MD, RI, and NV...congrats...on to evening gown!!
Evening gown...my favorite part... below are my favorite gowns.
The opening number were fabulous!! Five different groups with dresses that were to die for. But my favorite dress was Miss Texas (and it's not just because I'm from Texas :) ).
Miss USA Top 16...TN, AL, OH, MI, MD, NJ, TX (YES YES YES!!!!), CO, OK (YES!), LA, ME, GA, SC, RI, NV, and AR...congrats girls!!!
Swimsuit time...all of these ladies look great and are working in on stage!!
Miss USA Top 10...AL, OK (YES!), OH, GA, TX (YES YES YES!!!!), CO, NJ, MD, RI, and NV...congrats...on to evening gown!!
Evening gown...my favorite part... below are my favorite gowns.
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Miss USA Top 5...GA, NV, RI, MD, and OH...congrats!! Congrats to Brittany Booker Miss Texas USA...you made your state proud!!!
Who will be the next Miss USA?? Time for on-stage interview...they question is are they beautiful and smart...we are about to find out.
GA...spoke well but the answer was not sound
NV...spoke well but the answer was not sound
RI...I think she spoke and answered it very well...nailed it!
MD...spoke well but I don't think she wishy.washy on her answer
OH...spoke well but the answer was not sound
I think RI has it and so does everyone on Facebook. We shall find out very soon...
I LOVE Alyssa Campanella's farewell dress!!!
And the next Miss USA is... 4th runner up is...GA; 3rd runner up is...NV; 2nd runner up is...OH; 1st runner up (and shall take the crown if the winner cannot) is...MD; MISS USA IS RI!!! She nailed the final question and her evening gown is fabulous!!!
Congrats to Rhode Island Miss Olivia Culpo!!! You will represent USA fabulously at Miss Universe!
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| The new Miss USA 2012!! |
Rustie J
Words of Wisdom from Ciji Dodds Miss International 2011
My Top 5 Pageant Tips and Tricks
You would think that by now I would be accustomed to people asking me for advice. I’m not, at all. I still feel weird giving it, but at the same time I realize that if someone is asking me it’s because they trust my opinion. As national’s nears my inbox is getting fuller and fuller. Some questions are recurring and I’ve decided to answer them below.
1. How do you manage appearances while preparing for Nationals?
Do not over exert yourself or else by the time you get to Chicago, you will be wiped out. Make sure your schedule is manageable and affords you plenty of time to do the necessary prep work and keep appearances. The month before Nationals I didn’t make any appearances after July 10, if I remember correctly. I did this to give me time to decompress and to take care of tasks such as alterations, cosmetic appointments, and shopping for last minute wardrobe items. Small tasks such as running to your seamstress takes time, my advice, take as many pieces as possible at one time. You will cut down on gas and headaches. Things can get crazy, but above all else make sure you get enough rest. If you don’t slow down, your body will do it for you, and you don’t want that.
2. What advice do you have regarding interview questions?
Answer the questions. I don’t know how else to say it.
3. I’m having trouble with wardrobe, any tips on how to manage it?
Wardrobe is the never-ending nightmare. My number 1 tip, wear what makes you feel BEAUTIFUL. Pack as few shoes as possible. I love shoes and when I was told to do this I thought I would pass out. However, shoes take up precious space and they make your luggage heavy. Find a couple versatile pairs and make it happen.
As far as organization, make a wardrobe chart, complete with everything from the type of event to accessories and undergarments. You will thank me when you are packing! Also, as a general rule I always pack a couple extra cocktail dresses and an extra evening gown just in case.
4. How do I work on stage presence?
Video tape yourself and have someone who is brutally honest critique you, whether it is your coach, director or friend. Watching yourself is eye opening. So many things can be fixed just by watching yourself on video.
5. I heard that contestants are really busy during Nationals, how do you stay on top of everything?
Organization, organization, organization. When I got to my hotel room, the first thing I did was unpack and hang all my items on a travel clothes bar in accordance with my wardrobe sheet. I steamed and ironed everything at one time. You won’t have the time or energy to steam and iron on a daily basis. If you take care of it first thing, you will save time and frustration. Being on time is extremely important, so it is imperative that you can make quick changes with little fuss. Also, after every event, I immediately prepped for the next one before I did anything else. It’s been my experience that preparation and organization calms the nerves.
Best,
Ciji Dodds
Miss International 2011
1. How do you manage appearances while preparing for Nationals?
Do not over exert yourself or else by the time you get to Chicago, you will be wiped out. Make sure your schedule is manageable and affords you plenty of time to do the necessary prep work and keep appearances. The month before Nationals I didn’t make any appearances after July 10, if I remember correctly. I did this to give me time to decompress and to take care of tasks such as alterations, cosmetic appointments, and shopping for last minute wardrobe items. Small tasks such as running to your seamstress takes time, my advice, take as many pieces as possible at one time. You will cut down on gas and headaches. Things can get crazy, but above all else make sure you get enough rest. If you don’t slow down, your body will do it for you, and you don’t want that.
2. What advice do you have regarding interview questions?
Answer the questions. I don’t know how else to say it.
3. I’m having trouble with wardrobe, any tips on how to manage it?
Wardrobe is the never-ending nightmare. My number 1 tip, wear what makes you feel BEAUTIFUL. Pack as few shoes as possible. I love shoes and when I was told to do this I thought I would pass out. However, shoes take up precious space and they make your luggage heavy. Find a couple versatile pairs and make it happen.
As far as organization, make a wardrobe chart, complete with everything from the type of event to accessories and undergarments. You will thank me when you are packing! Also, as a general rule I always pack a couple extra cocktail dresses and an extra evening gown just in case.
4. How do I work on stage presence?
Video tape yourself and have someone who is brutally honest critique you, whether it is your coach, director or friend. Watching yourself is eye opening. So many things can be fixed just by watching yourself on video.
5. I heard that contestants are really busy during Nationals, how do you stay on top of everything?
Organization, organization, organization. When I got to my hotel room, the first thing I did was unpack and hang all my items on a travel clothes bar in accordance with my wardrobe sheet. I steamed and ironed everything at one time. You won’t have the time or energy to steam and iron on a daily basis. If you take care of it first thing, you will save time and frustration. Being on time is extremely important, so it is imperative that you can make quick changes with little fuss. Also, after every event, I immediately prepped for the next one before I did anything else. It’s been my experience that preparation and organization calms the nerves.
Best,
Ciji Dodds
Miss International 2011
Words of Wisdom from Ciji Dodds Miss International 2011
Appearances Matter
Ok. So the title of my blog is purposefully deceptive. When I use the word “Appearance,” I am talking about titleholder appearances and not the way you look on the outside. Everyone loves a working queen, however, appearances can be exhausting and consuming. At this very moment, my car is filled with my crown, sash, a sack of 30 to 40 books, bookmarks, pens, pencils, autograph cards, 4 pairs of shoes, back-up make-up, a garment bag with 2 just in case I’m a klutz dresses, and a pageant pack of tide pens, safety pins and baby wipes. And yes, I am tired and there have been times when I have wondered whether I was actually making a difference. The short answer is yes, appearances do matter.
Appearances are not only a way to promote your platform. They are a way to connect with people not only in your community but throughout the world. The beauty of appearances is that you never know who you will meet and what your meeting will lead to. I can’t count the number of times that I’ve met someone at an appearance, that resulted in another appearance or even a business opportunity. But most importantly, at each appearance, I usually make a meaningful connection with at least one person, which may not seem like a lot, but over time I like to think it makes a difference. Whether it is in a girl’s perception of her beauty or whether I have encouraged a child to pursue their education, appearances are the heartbeat of your year as a titleholder. So when you’re tired, just remember, Appearances do matter.
Best,
Ciji Dodds
Miss International 2011
Appearances are not only a way to promote your platform. They are a way to connect with people not only in your community but throughout the world. The beauty of appearances is that you never know who you will meet and what your meeting will lead to. I can’t count the number of times that I’ve met someone at an appearance, that resulted in another appearance or even a business opportunity. But most importantly, at each appearance, I usually make a meaningful connection with at least one person, which may not seem like a lot, but over time I like to think it makes a difference. Whether it is in a girl’s perception of her beauty or whether I have encouraged a child to pursue their education, appearances are the heartbeat of your year as a titleholder. So when you’re tired, just remember, Appearances do matter.
Best,
Ciji Dodds
Miss International 2011
Saturday, June 2, 2012
Boxer Mayweather Enters Jail for Domestic Violence Term
This is crap...why did Mayweather get to post-pone this jail time for his domestic violence sentence...because he had a fight. I don't care who or what you have going on. If you abused someone you should have to start your sentence right away. All this tells people is if your rich and/or famous you might be able to get out of abuse charges or serve your time when it's convenitent for them.
June 01, 2012
LAS VEGAS (Reuters) - Boxing champion Floyd Mayweather Jr. was booked into a Las Vegas jail on Friday to serve a 90-day sentence for domestic violence against an ex-girlfriend, a term that was previously postponed so the welterweight fighter could compete in a bout.
Mayweather, a flamboyant athlete regarded as the best defensive boxer of his generation, was issued standard dark blue prison garb and slippers and will be kept apart from the jail's general population of more than 3,000 other inmates, Las Vegas police said.
The unbeaten Mayweather had the start of his jail term delayed in January so he could fight in a May 5 super welterweight bout at the MGM Grand Garden Arena, where he came through 12 bruising rounds to prevail over Puerto Rican boxer Miguel Cotto.
After that contest, improving his professional record to 43-0, Mayweather discussed a possible fight with Manny Pacquiao of the Philippines, his rival for the mythical title of the world's best pound-for-pound fighter.
Fans have been clamoring for a Mayweather-Pacquiao matchup despite such stumbling blocks as Mayweather's insistence that Pacquiao agree to blood testing and disagreement over how the revenue from the fight should be divided.
Mayweather's jail sentence stems from a guilty plea in December to a charge of felony battery and pleas of no contest to two counts of harassment linked to a 2010 attack on his ex-girlfriend, Josie Harris, and verbal threats against two of his children with her.
The decision to delay his serving of the sentence, which was opposed by prosecutors, had been expected to benefit hotels and other businesses in Las Vegas. A major prize fight can generate $10 million to $15 million in non-gambling revenue.
During his time in the Clark County Detention Center, Mayweather will be confined to a cell consisting of a bed, toilet, sink and small desk, with a window to allow direct sunlight into the room, police said in a statement.
He will be allowed two books or magazines in his cell, and up to five religious books, and will be fed three meals a day, starting with breakfast at 4 a.m.
As a protective custody inmate, Mayweather will be kept in his cell while other inmates are on free-time, and will come out for free time for an hour a day while other inmates are on lockdown. During that time, he will have access to a recreation room, police said.
http://articles.chicagotribune.com/2012-06-01/sports/sns-rt-us-usa-mayweather-jailbre851021-20120601_1_mayweather-pacquiao-boxer-mayweather-josie-harris
June 01, 2012
LAS VEGAS (Reuters) - Boxing champion Floyd Mayweather Jr. was booked into a Las Vegas jail on Friday to serve a 90-day sentence for domestic violence against an ex-girlfriend, a term that was previously postponed so the welterweight fighter could compete in a bout.
Mayweather, a flamboyant athlete regarded as the best defensive boxer of his generation, was issued standard dark blue prison garb and slippers and will be kept apart from the jail's general population of more than 3,000 other inmates, Las Vegas police said.
The unbeaten Mayweather had the start of his jail term delayed in January so he could fight in a May 5 super welterweight bout at the MGM Grand Garden Arena, where he came through 12 bruising rounds to prevail over Puerto Rican boxer Miguel Cotto.
After that contest, improving his professional record to 43-0, Mayweather discussed a possible fight with Manny Pacquiao of the Philippines, his rival for the mythical title of the world's best pound-for-pound fighter.
Fans have been clamoring for a Mayweather-Pacquiao matchup despite such stumbling blocks as Mayweather's insistence that Pacquiao agree to blood testing and disagreement over how the revenue from the fight should be divided.
Mayweather's jail sentence stems from a guilty plea in December to a charge of felony battery and pleas of no contest to two counts of harassment linked to a 2010 attack on his ex-girlfriend, Josie Harris, and verbal threats against two of his children with her.
The decision to delay his serving of the sentence, which was opposed by prosecutors, had been expected to benefit hotels and other businesses in Las Vegas. A major prize fight can generate $10 million to $15 million in non-gambling revenue.
During his time in the Clark County Detention Center, Mayweather will be confined to a cell consisting of a bed, toilet, sink and small desk, with a window to allow direct sunlight into the room, police said in a statement.
He will be allowed two books or magazines in his cell, and up to five religious books, and will be fed three meals a day, starting with breakfast at 4 a.m.
As a protective custody inmate, Mayweather will be kept in his cell while other inmates are on free-time, and will come out for free time for an hour a day while other inmates are on lockdown. During that time, he will have access to a recreation room, police said.
http://articles.chicagotribune.com/2012-06-01/sports/sns-rt-us-usa-mayweather-jailbre851021-20120601_1_mayweather-pacquiao-boxer-mayweather-josie-harris
New Washington County Program Aids Domestic Abuse Victims
June 2, 2012
It seems simple, really, but saves lives.
Immediately asking 11 standard questions of domestic abuse victims -- generally women slammed around by men who profess to love them -- has changed Washington County's handling of such cases to the point that Sen. Amy Klobuchar, D-Minn., came to hear about it.
"It's one of the greatest things we've seen in domestic abuse in a long time," County Attorney Pete Orput said of the Lethality Assessment Protocol (LAP), that list of questions police ask of victims in intimate relationships that could head off more beatings -- or even homicides.
Prosecutors, police chiefs, the county sheriff, district judges, probation officers and victim advocates convened at the Washington County Government Center in Stillwater on Thursday to review the novel LAP program that now involves all 10 of the county's law enforcement agencies. The consensus: 300 assessments were accomplished in the first quarter of this year.
"I think we can see a real benefit to asking these questions on the streets," said Sandy Hahn, Washington County's deputy community corrections director who introduced LAP locally in 2010. Her department oversees people on probation for various crimes -- and many of them in trouble for abusing their intimate partners.
The top three questions that police officers ask concentrate on the likelihood that dangerous offenders will escalate violence. Was a weapon used or threatened? Do you think he might kill you? Has he made threats against you or your children?
Klobuchar, a former chief prosecutor in Hennepin County, said domestic disturbances are "fraught with emotion" and the LAP program helps bring a clear-sighted approach to defusing further violence. Victims who score high on the questions -- meaning they're at high risk -- could be taken to a shelter for immediate protection. Various criminal justice agencies, including courts, share the findings.
Police Chief Bill Sullivan of Oakdale told Klobuchar that of 51 LAP assessments made in his city, only one required further police intervention. In most domestic disturbances when nobody is arrested, he said, the situation settles down after police intervene.
"I think we have a far greater concern when there is demonstrable violence that has occurred and an arrest is made," he said in an interview Friday. "The suspect will ultimately be released from jail at some point and we can never accurately predict the suspect's reaction to being arrested after they return home. ... Any tool that we can use to try and help assess potential future violence is very important."
Oakdale and the Washington County Sheriff's Office were the first agencies to start LAP.
Karin McCarthy, a Washington County assistant attorney, said prosecutors can use LAP findings to ask judges for higher bail for abusers, or to successfully argue for tougher release conditions. And victims who have been placed under protection of the domestic violence agency Tubman have shown more willingness to help prosecutors, he said.
In Ramsey County, law enforcement agencies now are being trained for a similar lethality assessment program, said County Attorney John Choi. Adapted from the program "Blueprint for Safety" that Choi started in his previous job as St. Paul's city attorney, the county initiative aims to ensure victim safety and offender accountability.
Quicker intervention in domestic abuse cases means a higher likelihood that defendants can be held accountable because victims are less inclined to become intimidated, Choi said. The program also means more urgency directed at the most dangerous cases, he said.
Washington County District Judge Elizabeth Martin said the LAP program can't save all victims in Washington County from further violence. But the quick sharing of information in dangerous cases, she said, guides judges in their responses to the most troubling offenders.
"One of the things we know about these folks is that they violate, frequently, the conditions of their probation," said Tom Adkins, who heads Washington County's community corrections department. "This is one way for us to say, 'This is one we really need to pay attention to.'"
http://www.startribune.com/local/east/156874195.html
It seems simple, really, but saves lives.
Immediately asking 11 standard questions of domestic abuse victims -- generally women slammed around by men who profess to love them -- has changed Washington County's handling of such cases to the point that Sen. Amy Klobuchar, D-Minn., came to hear about it.
"It's one of the greatest things we've seen in domestic abuse in a long time," County Attorney Pete Orput said of the Lethality Assessment Protocol (LAP), that list of questions police ask of victims in intimate relationships that could head off more beatings -- or even homicides.
Prosecutors, police chiefs, the county sheriff, district judges, probation officers and victim advocates convened at the Washington County Government Center in Stillwater on Thursday to review the novel LAP program that now involves all 10 of the county's law enforcement agencies. The consensus: 300 assessments were accomplished in the first quarter of this year.
"I think we can see a real benefit to asking these questions on the streets," said Sandy Hahn, Washington County's deputy community corrections director who introduced LAP locally in 2010. Her department oversees people on probation for various crimes -- and many of them in trouble for abusing their intimate partners.
The top three questions that police officers ask concentrate on the likelihood that dangerous offenders will escalate violence. Was a weapon used or threatened? Do you think he might kill you? Has he made threats against you or your children?
Klobuchar, a former chief prosecutor in Hennepin County, said domestic disturbances are "fraught with emotion" and the LAP program helps bring a clear-sighted approach to defusing further violence. Victims who score high on the questions -- meaning they're at high risk -- could be taken to a shelter for immediate protection. Various criminal justice agencies, including courts, share the findings.
Police Chief Bill Sullivan of Oakdale told Klobuchar that of 51 LAP assessments made in his city, only one required further police intervention. In most domestic disturbances when nobody is arrested, he said, the situation settles down after police intervene.
"I think we have a far greater concern when there is demonstrable violence that has occurred and an arrest is made," he said in an interview Friday. "The suspect will ultimately be released from jail at some point and we can never accurately predict the suspect's reaction to being arrested after they return home. ... Any tool that we can use to try and help assess potential future violence is very important."
Oakdale and the Washington County Sheriff's Office were the first agencies to start LAP.
Karin McCarthy, a Washington County assistant attorney, said prosecutors can use LAP findings to ask judges for higher bail for abusers, or to successfully argue for tougher release conditions. And victims who have been placed under protection of the domestic violence agency Tubman have shown more willingness to help prosecutors, he said.
In Ramsey County, law enforcement agencies now are being trained for a similar lethality assessment program, said County Attorney John Choi. Adapted from the program "Blueprint for Safety" that Choi started in his previous job as St. Paul's city attorney, the county initiative aims to ensure victim safety and offender accountability.
Quicker intervention in domestic abuse cases means a higher likelihood that defendants can be held accountable because victims are less inclined to become intimidated, Choi said. The program also means more urgency directed at the most dangerous cases, he said.
Washington County District Judge Elizabeth Martin said the LAP program can't save all victims in Washington County from further violence. But the quick sharing of information in dangerous cases, she said, guides judges in their responses to the most troubling offenders.
"One of the things we know about these folks is that they violate, frequently, the conditions of their probation," said Tom Adkins, who heads Washington County's community corrections department. "This is one way for us to say, 'This is one we really need to pay attention to.'"
http://www.startribune.com/local/east/156874195.html
2nd Annual Genesis Women's Shelter - Strike Out Domestic Violence
I will be at 300 Dallas in Addison, Texas on on July 28th supporting Genesis Women's Shelter at their fabulous bowling event "Strike Out Domestic Violence."
If you want to participate please contact Jenn West at jwest@genesisshelter.org.
About Genesis Women's Shelter
Their mission is to end the epidemic of domestic violence against women and children by stopping individual victimization and reducing the devastating impact of family violence through safety, shelter and expert services to battered women and their children.
They are committed to preventing violence by raising the level of community awareness regarding the pervasiveness and effects of domestic violence.
Each year, the programs at Genesis continue to expand in response to the increased need for our services. Our outreach counselors see an average of 1,000 women and children each year, and our Shelter houses 650 women and children annually. The families who walk through our doors are escaping unspeakable violence, and our goal is to provide them with all the tools they need. From the moment a woman picks up the phone to call the hotline, to her arrival at the Shelter, to the ongoing counseling for her and her children, Genesis Women's Shelter is there to help her navigate the difficult road and achieve success she once only dreamed possible.
Rustie J
If you want to participate please contact Jenn West at jwest@genesisshelter.org.
About Genesis Women's Shelter
Their mission is to end the epidemic of domestic violence against women and children by stopping individual victimization and reducing the devastating impact of family violence through safety, shelter and expert services to battered women and their children.
They are committed to preventing violence by raising the level of community awareness regarding the pervasiveness and effects of domestic violence.
Each year, the programs at Genesis continue to expand in response to the increased need for our services. Our outreach counselors see an average of 1,000 women and children each year, and our Shelter houses 650 women and children annually. The families who walk through our doors are escaping unspeakable violence, and our goal is to provide them with all the tools they need. From the moment a woman picks up the phone to call the hotline, to her arrival at the Shelter, to the ongoing counseling for her and her children, Genesis Women's Shelter is there to help her navigate the difficult road and achieve success she once only dreamed possible.
Rustie J
CHICS Sixth Annual Fundraiser Supporting The Family Place
I will be at Gilley's Dallas on June 16th, supporting The Family Place at their Sixth Annual CHICS Fundraiser. It is a fabulous night of music and dancing, raffle, live and silent auctions.
CHICS is a fabulous Dallas-Ft. Worth group of about 25 outstanding women that's goal is to support The Family Place and to raise awareness on domestic violence. CHICS stands for Caring Hands Invoking Community Spirit.
To purchase tickets contact Karen DeGraffenreid 214-443-7714 kadegraffenreid@familyplace.org. Tickets are $60 in advance and $70 at the door.
About The Family Place:
The Family Place is the largest family violence service provider in the Dallas area reaching out to thousands of victims of family violence each year with award-winning programs that keep women and children safe. For 33 years, The Family Place’s mission to end the epidemic of family violence has remained constant. We believe that intervention, emergency shelter, and crisis counseling for all victims—women, children and men—will save lives and that transitional housing and case management will transform lives for the better.
Rustie J
CHICS is a fabulous Dallas-Ft. Worth group of about 25 outstanding women that's goal is to support The Family Place and to raise awareness on domestic violence. CHICS stands for Caring Hands Invoking Community Spirit.
To purchase tickets contact Karen DeGraffenreid 214-443-7714 kadegraffenreid@familyplace.org. Tickets are $60 in advance and $70 at the door.
About The Family Place:
The Family Place is the largest family violence service provider in the Dallas area reaching out to thousands of victims of family violence each year with award-winning programs that keep women and children safe. For 33 years, The Family Place’s mission to end the epidemic of family violence has remained constant. We believe that intervention, emergency shelter, and crisis counseling for all victims—women, children and men—will save lives and that transitional housing and case management will transform lives for the better.
Rustie J
SWWLS - June Get Together
I am excitied about June's Society of Women Who Love Shoes get together at Manuel's Creative Cuisine in Dallas, TX on June 13 at 6-9PM.
Manuel’s Creative Cuisine
(Across from Winston's Supper Club)
3102 Oak Lawn Avenue
Dallas, Texas
Please RSVP
$10.00 and a donation of New or Gently used Shoes for Women and Children
****Also Taking Toiletries and School Supplies for inner-city Children****
Proceeds go to benefit Families of Abuse & BAM (Beautiful Ambitious Me)
Complimentary Hors d’ oeuvres and cash bar by Manuel’s Creative Cuisine
Contests: Sexiest Shoe - Highest Heel -Most Unique Shoe - check back to see pictures of the winners :)
Men are welcome but wear a Tie and you could be a Judge
Manuel’s Creative Cuisine
(Across from Winston's Supper Club)
3102 Oak Lawn Avenue
Dallas, Texas
Please RSVP
$10.00 and a donation of New or Gently used Shoes for Women and Children
****Also Taking Toiletries and School Supplies for inner-city Children****
Proceeds go to benefit Families of Abuse & BAM (Beautiful Ambitious Me)
Complimentary Hors d’ oeuvres and cash bar by Manuel’s Creative Cuisine
Contests: Sexiest Shoe - Highest Heel -Most Unique Shoe - check back to see pictures of the winners :)
Men are welcome but wear a Tie and you could be a Judge
See you there!!
Rustie J
IT'S OFFICAL..I'm The Spokesperson for The Society of Women Who Love Shoes!!!
I am so excited to be the spokesperson for The Society of Women Who Love Shoes - "Healing Families of Abuse One Sole at a Time." Together we will be educating the public about domestic violence, advocating for the victims and survivors, and raising awareness on a topic that many don't want to talk about. I will be part of every event that I can because it is my goal to become a well known name in the fight against domestic violence. Remember "Don't Do It/Don't Take It," no one deserves to be abused no matter what.
Together we can and will make a difference!!!
Rustie J
One in every Four women will experience domestic violence in her lifetime (National Institute of Justice and the Centers of Disease Control and Prevention).The cost of intimate partner violence exceeds $5.8 billion each year, $4.1 billion of which is for direct medical and mental health services.( U.S. Department of Justice, Bureau of Justice Statistics).
The Power of Shoes : Society of Women Who LOVE Shoes is a non-profit organization whose focus includes collecting shoes and other items for victims of domestic violence. Through our networking and social events we raise awareness and promote change for these victims and survivors.
| The fabulous Dianne and Roger Samoff |
The Power of Shoes began as The Society of Women Who LOVE Shoes and was founded in 2005 by Dianne Samoff in Houston, TX. After suffering years of domestic violence during her first marriage, Ms. Samoff finally escaped. Trying to get a job after leaving, she was given a suit and a pair of red heels to wear to an interview. Both gave her a sense of pride and hope knowing she was moving forward into a new future. Ms. Samoff felt the need to give this same source of hope to other women of domestic violence. She currently has a chapter of Society of Women Who LOVE Shoes in Houston, Dallas and Miami with hopes to expand around the world.
"We all know that when a woman feels like a woman, there is POWER!"
-Dianne Samoff, Founder
Together we can and will make a difference!!!
Rustie J
Relay For Life - Irving
I had another fabulous time with Mrs. Fort Worth, Angela Pollard, at the Irving Relay For Life!! It is always an inspiration to hear the stores from the survivors and the new lease on life that they have.
You should know some of the general signs and symptoms of cancer. But remember, having any of these does not mean that you have cancer -- many other things cause these signs and symptoms, too. If you have any of these symptoms and they last for a long time or get worse, please see a doctor to find out what is going on.
Unexplained weight loss
Fever
Fever is very common with cancer, but it more often happens after cancer has spread from where it started. Almost all patients with cancer will have fever at some time, especially if the cancer or its treatment affects the immune system. This can make it harder for the body to fight infection. Less often, fever may be an early sign of cancer, such as blood cancers like leukemia or lymphoma.
Fatigue
Along with cancers of the skin, some other cancers can cause skin symptoms or signs that can be seen. These signs and symptoms include:
Learn what some of the most common signs and symptoms of cancer are...so read more!!
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| My partner in crime!! |
Unexplained weight loss
Most people with cancer will lose weight at some point. When you lose weight with no known reason, it's called an unexplained weight loss. An unexplained weight loss of 10 pounds or more may be the first sign of cancer. This happens most often with cancers of the pancreas, stomach, esophagus, or lung.
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| One of the many fabulous volunteers! |
Fever is very common with cancer, but it more often happens after cancer has spread from where it started. Almost all patients with cancer will have fever at some time, especially if the cancer or its treatment affects the immune system. This can make it harder for the body to fight infection. Less often, fever may be an early sign of cancer, such as blood cancers like leukemia or lymphoma.
Fatigue
Fatigue is extreme tiredness that does not get better with rest. It may be an important symptom as cancer grows. It may happen early, though, in cancers like leukemia. Some colon or stomach cancers can cause blood loss. This is another way cancer can cause fatigue.
Pain
Pain
Pain may be an early symptom with some cancers like bone cancers or testicular cancer. A headache that does not go away or get better with treatment may be a symptom of a brain tumor. Back pain can be a symptom of cancer of the colon, rectum, or ovary. Most often, pain due to cancer is a symptom of cancer that has already spread from where it started (metastasized).
Skin changesAlong with cancers of the skin, some other cancers can cause skin symptoms or signs that can be seen. These signs and symptoms include:
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- Darker looking skin (hyperpigmentation)
- Yellowish skin and eyes (jaundice)
- Reddened skin (erythema)
- Itching (pruritis)
- Excessive hair growth
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| Dancing away cancer :) |
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| Here is what we are looking at!! |
Rustie J
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